Chief Justice John Roberts famously said, “To
stop racial discrimination, we must simply STOP discriminating (counting) by
race.”
In recent years there have been dozens of lawsuits
centered around race and gender, many of them directly impacting the Fire
Service.
In many ways these lawsuits have transformed the
workplace. The old rules and old saws (appeals to MORE and BETTER training and
strong leadership) simply DO NOT work. Many sexual harassers, even sexual
assaulters are well-educated, many are in supervisory positions, in fact, in
today’s workplace, some of them are even female!
None of that should be at all surprising,
considering that we had a President of the United States (Bill Clinton), who in
ANY other job, would’ve been charged with sexual harassment, and perhaps much
worse. The mere appearance of impropriety (like the massive power differential
between a supervisor and a subordinate, let alone the President of the United
States and a young intern) would be enough to force a Corporate or Municipal
leader out of that position and possibly into prison.
However, the working world STILL suffers from a
plethora of arcane and outdated Victorian fantasies, especially about men and
women. Too many men still hold to outdated, wrong-headed and chauvinistic views
about males and females. Treating women as perpetual victims not only reeks of
paternalism, but it locks women into the “damsel in distress” mode, that all
too often has no bearing in reality.
The
TRUTH About Men & Women
Women are NOT helpless. They are no more prone to
victimization then males are, and they are also no LESS prone to be predators, despite the fact that men and women
generally choose different methods of predation.
No less a person than Alan Dershowitz noted the
disparities in actions and consequences for female predators; While “women in general account for only about 10 percent
of defendants charged with all murders...for all spousal murders, women
accounted for more than 40 percent of defendants. And "among black marital
partners, wives were just about as likely to kill their husbands as husbands
were to kill their wives."
Not surprisingly, when it comes to parents who kill their
children, mothers kill more often than fathers.
The real headline of this report,
therefore, is that women kill almost as often as men do in the context of all
family murders, though men much more often kill strangers - nearly always other
men.
The other shocker in this
report is that husbands who kill their wives are not treated more leniently
than men who kill strangers, despite the media myth to the contrary...” the “data dramatically undercuts the myth that husbands who kill their
wives are treated more leniently than wives who kill their husbands. The
available evidence points overwhelmingly in the opposite direction, Wives who
kill their husbands were acquitted in 12.9 percent of the cases studied, while
husbands who kill their wives were acquitted in only 1.4 percent of the cases. Women who were convicted of killing their
husbands were sentenced to an average of six years in prison, while men
received an average of seventeen years for killing their wives, Sixteen percent of female spousal killers
get probation, compared to 1.6 percent for males. By almost every other
measure as well, female spousal killers are treated more leniently than male
spousal killers.”
The
point of all this is that the old male chauvinist paradigm that sees all women
as “soft, sweet, gentle creatures,” is not only wrong, but dangerous in today’s
workplace. There are rewards (civil jackpots) for predatory “victims” adept at
manipulating the system. Frankly, the ONLY way to get those old, outdated and
wrong-headed ideas OUT of today’s workplace, is to replace the (mostly) male
leadership that still clings to them. NOT (necessarily) by women, but at least
by a combination of men and women who DON’T hold to those outdated and corrosive
ideas.
For
the most part, the men who still hold to such views aren’t bad people at all.
In fact, most are well-intentioned, but we all know what’s said about good
intentions and the road to hell. It is unfortunate, but ideas and views like
these die hard and that’s why the purveyors of these antiquated beliefs simply
NEED to be replaced.
Treating
ALL Workers EQUALLY is a Legal MANDATE
A
few years back the DSNY (NYC’s Dept of Sanitation) sought to reduce the
workload (the amount of trash female workers had to pick up each day). The
Sanitation Worker’s Union rightly sued the DSNY and the City of NY and the
courts correctly ruled that the workloads for ALL workers must be reduced, or
otherwise kept the same for ALL workers.
That
ruling proved that no worker is entitled to special accommodations. Every
worker in every Department is seen as “an interchangeable cog.”
The
lawsuits that altered physical standards to get more women on various Fire
Departments REJECTED the arguments about male/female differentials in upper
body strength and in ignoring them, eliminated the right of supervisory
personnel to seek to “minimize” such “nonexistent” strength differentials.
THAT
is the very essence of today’s “disparate impact” rulings. They have NOT ruled
that “various disparities exist, but are considered superfluous,” INSTEAD they’ve
ruled that NO such disparities exist.
In
cases in which written exams were challenged based on their “disparate impacts,”
the courts DID NOT rule that such differentials exist, but are NOT important,
but instead, that the tests utilized were flawed and that no actual disparities
were recognized by the courts.
That’s
a vital distinction because it makes clear that EVERY person who gets on a Fire
Department can be subjected to the most rigorous physical and cognitive
standards in training (at the Fire Academy) and in subsequent on-the-job drills
and outside classes.
A
supervisor has neither the legal authority, nor rationale to treat different
workers (male/female, black/white, etc.) differently. In fact, such actions
amount to “disparate treatment” (or “deliberate/intentional discrimination”) and
can be civilly actionable.
Sexual
Harassment, Sexual Assault, Rape and Bullying in the Workplace
In
another discussion on LinkedIn, I
took issue with another member about both the prevalence and abusiveness of
false allegations. In virtually EVERY case, false allegations amount to “bullying,”
by a predator masquerading as a victim.
Few
EEO Departments take this form of bullying at all seriously and that in itself
is criminal.
Just how prevalent are false
allegations of sexual misconduct? Well, as to rape allegations, several decent
studies have been done recently on the frequency of false rape accusations.
“A
meta-analysis by Rumney (2006) suggests that between 10-50% of rape allegations
are false. Kanin (1994) arrived at an estimate of 40%, using methodology that
strikes me as more trustworthy than a simple count of police-recorded
‘malicious accusations’, since many false rape claims are ignored. Kanin’s
unique process was as follows:
“Kanin investigated the incidences of false rape
allegations made to the police in one small urban community between 1978 and
1987. He states that unlike those in many larger jurisdictions, this
police department had the resources to “seriously record and pursue to closure
all rape complaints, regardless of their merits.” He further states each investigation
“always involves a serious offer to polygraph the complainants and the
suspects” and “the complainant must admit that no rape had occurred. She is the
sole agent who can say that the rape charge is false.”
The number of false rape allegations in the studied
period was 45; this was 41% of the 109 total complaints filed in this period.
The researchers verified, whenever possible, for all of the complainants who
recanted their allegations, that their new account of the events matched the
accused’s version of events.”
As a recent article in Slater magazine asked, “What is rape, anyways? Once upon a time it was when a man had sex with
a woman even while she was saying ‘No.’
“Today,
there are many articles that argue that a “weak yes” can also be
considered a “No”. Feminists are actively working to re-define the
definition of consent to make it as subjective and open to manipulation as
possible. The days of “No Means No” are long gone, replaced by a new paradigm of “If I Wake Up and Feel Uncomfortable With What
Happened, Well I Guess I Must Have Been Feeling No.” ”
This
data is vital because it highlights another form of bullying that has largely
gone unnoticed and unresolved.
Thankfully,
new changes in technology are also quickly transforming our workplace as well
and some of these technologies might very well make dealing with such incidents
a whole lot easier.
DEALING
WITH Rape, Workplace Violence and Bullying...
While
maintaining our empathy for anyone claiming “victim’s status,” we must ALSO
maintain a healthy skepticism. That skepticism SHOULD BE heightened
considerably when a “victim” refuses to file an official report, or file
criminal charges.
If
a serious physical assault occurs between members, we expect both Departmental
and criminal charges to be filed. ALL actual sexual assaults should be
considered serious. IF an individual who claims to be a “victim” refuses to
come forward, that’s indicative of either a pervasive atmosphere of bullying,
or that perhaps the alleged “victim,” is the actual predator, or “bully.”
As
you’ve probably noticed, we now live in a virtual surveillance state, where
private phone conversations can be made public, where individuals can digitally
record the events of the day on a wide array of easily concealable devices and in
at least 37 states, it is perfectly legal for any individual to record others,
so long as ONE person (the recorder) is aware that the event is being recorded.
In short, “privacy,” as we once knew it, is
functionally obsolete. In fact the very term “privacy” has been transformed
today with the introduction of ubiquitous camera. I routinely have 3 video cams
set up in my car alone (front-view, rear-view and side view). My home is ringed
with surveillance cameras, many that monitor the street in front of my home and
I have more such cameras set up inside my home. I act accordingly. I have NO
expectation of privacy once I step outside my front door. My neighbor has every
right to record everything he/she sees, whether through mobile cameras, either
on mobile phones, OR emerging technology like Google Glass.
Moreover, surveillance cameras actually reduce
illicit action BY reducing that illusion of privacy and, believe me, “privacy
in a public space” today, is very much an illusion. More than that, such images
demonstrably illustrate what happened and who was a fault and given the
inherent murkiness of sexual, racial and other charges today, nothing could be
more vital than getting to the bottom of who is who in any given situation.
There will ALWAYS be
bigots and sexists everywhere in society and sadly “better leadership,” and “more
training, better education,” etc. WILL
NOT change the human condition.
Interdiction is the
ONLY real way to combat such problems. Such interdiction requires getting to
the bottom of “who’s who,” which party is at fault – Is there a violation here,
or a false report – and the most effective and reliable way to do that is via
surreptitious surveillance. The charge that such surveillance is an “after-the-fact”
approach is utter nonsense. A verbal/written “victim’s statement” or report is
an “after-the-fact” response, while an actual real-time video recording of an
event gives an immediate (“in the moment”) documentation of the event in
question.
One thing we all must
be clear on is the days of us saying things like, “Why would a ‘victim’ lie,” SHOULD be over. Countless incidents
over the past few decades have proven conclusively that not only has there been
a plethora of false rape allegations, but false racial incidents, or hoaxes, as
well. These are complex issues and are NOT open to simple, straightforward approaches...they
DON’T work.
JMK